【Mumbai, Indi】When Filmmakers Rejected ‘He-Man’ Dharmendra, the Late Actor Recalled an Old Story

Editor’s Note

This article highlights the enduring lesson that dedication and perseverance, as exemplified by veteran actor Dharmendra’s career, remain the true cornerstones of success.

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Dharmendra built his place in the film industry through hard work and discipline

Dharmendra carved out his place in the film industry through hard work and discipline. He faced initial difficulties and finally debuted in 1960. His life is an example that dreams are fulfilled only through hard work.

The Indian film industry lost a genuine and unique artist

The Indian film industry today lost a genuine and unique artist, Dharmendra. He was a hero who defined the meaning of real heroism long before muscles, machines, and box office numbers. At such times, people start watching his old interviews to remember the person behind the screen.

His conversation with Rajat Sharma on ‘Aap Ki Adalat’ is one of those moments that shows his heart in the clearest way. In this very interview, Dharmendra had revealed that people were initially not ready to give him work.

What Dharmendra’s childhood was like

When Rajat Sharma asked him about growing up in a strict household, Dharmendra smiled and began to recount a memory that gives a glimpse of his childhood.

“My father was a school teacher, imagine how much discipline he would have kept. Once I was very young and wanted to sleep next to him. I asked my mother and she said, ‘Go, sleep.’ But as soon as father laid me down, he said, ‘Recite the multiplication tables to me.’ Meaning he started making me recite multiplication and division. I thought I had come to sleep, not to die!”

Behind the laughter, the strength that emerged from his difficult life is clearly visible.

Cinema, like a call of destiny

The first time he watched a film in a theater, everything changed. Skipping school felt like freedom in his eyes, but what he felt afterwards was even bigger than that. He said:

“I watched my first film ‘Shaheed’. When I came out of the theater, I thought—where do these people live? I want to go there. Perhaps seeing the truth of my heart, God melted.”

This very desire brought him from a middle-class home in Punjab to Mumbai without any plan, just carrying a dream. Rajat Sharma reminded him that many producers had initially rejected him. Some even said he should wrestle instead of doing films. Dharmendra recalled those days without any complaint.

“I was signed for ‘Bandini’, but Vimal da and Guru Dutt sahab took time to make the film. Living in a city like Mumbai is difficult for someone from a middle-class family. Later, I was called for a screen test for ‘Love in Shimla’. After seeing me, they said, ‘We need a hero, not a hockey player.'”

These words could have broken anyone. But he said the very thing that defined his journey:

“I kept my self-respect intact. Work is worship. I just kept thinking about work.”

Finally, in 1960, destiny opened doors for him. Dharmendra debuted with ‘Dil Bhi Tera, Hum Bhi Tere’, directed by Arjun Hingorani, the same person who later became very important in his career.

This was not a grand launch, nor did he achieve stardom overnight. But this very film gave birth to a star whom India soon began to love wholeheartedly. After a small beginning, he built his stature through hard work, discipline, and truthfulness.

The person who was once told he “looks too strong,” later became the most beloved romantic and action hero of his era. Dharmendra is a living example that dreams are not given, they are earned.

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⏰ Published on: November 24, 2025